Potty Training

This has to be the hardest thing to deal with when you have kids. Maybe I just have very stubborn kids!! Since my kids turned 1 I started getting them use to the potty. I now have a 3 year old girl who is just FINALLY starting to go pee on the potty but only when I remind her! My 2 year old boy goes on the potty AFTER he poops. I can't get it through his head to go to the potty BEFORE the mess starts! I have tried the reward thing... I have offered stickers, candy, popsicles, a PUPPY and nothing works!! I'm guessing it just takes time. When they are ready they will let you know!